Vlady was talking to a coordinator named Irina this afternoon. Irina told us that he told her that he is going to learn to speak English in America, and then he asked her if they have machine guns there!!! Rich said “not in our house.” I’ll need to add 1 machine gun to the Target baby registry when we get back….hehe. So today was a good day. Vlady is practicing snapping his fingers. Rich showed him how and ever since he has been practicing and he is almost getting it. 1 out of 4 attempts we’ll hear a slight snap. He’ll be snapping all the way home…which is fine with me…anything to keep him busy. He also is enjoying coloring in his coloring book. He takes his time and will color in one character in one color, and then the next character in another color. He is very proud and loves to show us his finished project. They love Pringles chips. They both know how to say chips…they say it like “cheaps.” It’s cute. Today we went out for a walk to the market to pick up some foods for a picnic down by the water. I got a poppyseed roll, two onion buns, cheese breadsticks, yogurt bars, and juice boxes and two ice teas. This was the only finger foods I could find there but we did enjoy everything. The poppyseed roll was dry and in no way compared to Mom’s famous rolls – Mom baked better nut/poppyseed rolls than anyone in the entire world- it’s a fact now! We didn’t get to eat much of the poppyseed roll anyway because a bee landed on my hand that I had the poppyseed roll in and I screamed and flung my hand to get the bee off and the roll went flying through the air…Vlady and Alex were startled and just stared at me – I said it was a bee!!! Later the bee came back and they realized why I acted like that! So we scattered the poppyseed roll on the ground for the birds (and ants). Our first attempt to eat in the picnic area gazebos by the bay was interrupted by a drunk Russian man that we think was asking us for money or trying to kick us out of the gazebo picnic thing. We couldn’t understand him and Rich kept saying “is it okay to eat here?” The man wouldn’t leave. Vlady was telling the man that he is five years old, that his brother is 3 and that his parents were really old…(he spreads out his hands to show how old we are kind of like “the fish was this big”). The man is amused by Vlady but still not leaving…now two other men are starting to walk toward us…I said Rich let’s leave and he agreed. We threw everything back into the bag and off we went in search of another picnic spot. We went next door to the old amusement park area and made our first family picnic on a bench near the old, rusty “cyclone” ride…(Becky and Josie it was like the ride that we went on at Idlewild that spins you and you stick to the back!). We then walked back to the hotel, and played in the front foyer area. Then went back to the room to have the boys lay down to sleep or play quietly for an hour in their room. When we got back to the room, Vlady asked us for a koset (for lunch/snack). Usually after our mid morning walk we come back and have lunch but this time we had a picnic lunch and Vlady couldn’t understand this…he is so structured. We tried to explain that we ate lunch down by the water! While the boys were playing in their room, I ran back out to walk again to the market to get some groceries that should carry us through to Friday. Tomorrow night we are going to the nice restaurant in the hotel (wish us luck). Tomorrow for lunch I think we are going to go on another picnic…it’s kind of nice to get out and do normal things. We may go and eat in a gazebo right by the hotel. We are still trying to get a good picture of the squirrel/rabbit…the one time we forgot the camera on our walk the beealki (squirrel) was putting on a show out front. Hopefully, we’ll see him again. Katie – yes, we got a matrushka doll for you yesterday!!! I’ll send it out when we get back. If you could email me your address at some point – thanks. Also, yes, I was very disturbed that the whales were captive. Rich thought that maybe they could swim out and back but no..they were captive. At first we thought they were dolphins from a distance and then got closer. The whales were soooo intelligent..just like dolphins. The man who was the trainer that took the pictures was giving them all kinds of hand signals and they would perform. I was quiet as we walked away and Rich knew I was really bothered by them having to spend their lives in an enclosed area just so we could see them up close and say “aw how cute” and then leave. I hope they have their freedom one day. Pano and Sperry, sounds like you had a great Easter – 4 a.m.!!! WOW – way to pull an Easter all nighter! We will definitely have to write down what we have been told already and a few things that Vlady told the coordinator. Good idea…they are fresh in our minds now but afer 6 months we will forget and that’s not fair to the boys. Nina and Gary any word yet? Cyndie – thanks for the invite to your pool- I’m sure the boys will love it! And to have Kobe and Jotsi running around too (minus the ka kat on your entry floor next time!). Okay, off to drink some seltzer water (I accidentally bought it rather than spring water). 2 ½ days to go – yippee !!!!! California here we come, right back where we started from!!! We love you !! Jayne, Rich, Vlady, Alex and Jotsi
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Hello Jayne, Rich, Vlady, & Alexei,
It's always good to hear from you and your latest adventures.
The machine gun story remind us of something while in Russia. When we had to get ready to throw the orphanage "going away" party, we were told by our translator that we would have to go shopping for specific items like a few cakes and a few gallons of punch. We went with her to the OKAY Market, Russia's answer to Walmart. What struck us as so bizarre is that right next to the opening was this huge selection of what looked to be assault weapons for sale, in the window right by the entrance,just as if you were looking at shoes or housewares. We wonder if the boys have ever seen anything like it. Our girls walked right by it and didn't even bat an eye. It just looked so out of place. So we guess that OKAY really is a great store for one-stop shopping.
You're right about the kids liking or being used to structured routines. When we took the kids from the orphanage, the first few days they seemed totally lost and unsure of what was coming next. Once we got home and started our daily living, even if they didn't actively participate in the daily ritual right away (like prayer before a meal or at bedtime), they always were expecting it. Daria would always remind us and her sister that it was time to do certain things and what we were exactly supposed to be doing. She still is that way.
Our kids thought that everytime someone came over, it was a custom to bring them a gift. We had to tell them that it was just because this was the first time that people were meeting them and that this would not always be the case. Well, of course it did die down but the kids really were showered with lots and lots of presents from everyone and our first Christmas, it took us almost 2 1/2 hours to open up all the gifts. Our living room floor was covered all the way from the tree in the corner to the entry. We had to keep reminding our kids that this was only temporary though the next Christmas, they still did get lots of stuff from friends and family. We did teach our kids to say "Thank you I love it!" every time they opened a gift from someone which was kind of cute and most people thought it was funny. With their accents, they sounded like two mini-Zsa Zsa Gabors.
Like yourselves, we have a large family and circle of friends. We didn't want to overwhelm the kids so for the first six weeks or so, we kind of scheduled visitors. Sperry's family came to pick us up at the airport, Pano's family came the next day, the Godparents came a couple of weeks later, etc...The kids adjusted pretty well but the first few times they were a bit scared and still kind of confused as to what was going on.
Our kids are a lot braver than we think. Here they are leaving their surroundings with total strangers, not knowing where they're going or what's going to happen to them. We used to think when we'd drive them somewhere, they really have no clue as to what's going on. They just get in and go. Of course, being limited in communicating was a biggy. Eventually they started to figure out which street and which freeway went where. It's just funny how trusting they really are.
When we first came home, they were so tight and it felt as it was us against them. We knew it had switched after Daria had stopped defending Taia and was arguing with her like normal siblings. Also, about a week after being home, Taia began rejecting Sperry. Pano would play a game with her by picking her up and then throwing her onto Sperry's lap. Taia would immediately jump off but after time, she became accepting. Now the two are inseparable. Don't be surprised if one child seems to reject one parent after you get home. Things will continue to change until a comfort level is achieved. We really were on the kids about what we expected from them. Sometimes you get discouraged and want to give up but don't. Keep perservering. You don't want to lose any battles with them, no matter how small or large. We did do, and still do, a lot of talking and explaining to them about things. We want them to understand why we have certain rules. It's funny that we became sort of a Mike Brady, giving our kids little bits of wisdom. We thought the kids weren't listening but really they are and later we'd hear them mimicking us when particular situations arose. It did sink in!
You guys are doing a fantastic job with the boys.
We can't wait to see you. All our love to everyone.
Have the best day ever!
Pano & Sperry
We can take the boys to the desert when they are older to shoot a real machine gun, but if anyone ask I didn't say that....Tell them Uncle Tom has connections!-- That is a funny story! Hope all goes well this week get some motion sickness meds. like dramamine or bonine before you leave. The girls always take it before we fly and it will help them sleep too. xoxoxox Cyndie
Hi Family,
Yesterday at the Pittsburgh airport (you get free wi-fi)I wrote you out a long comment. When I sent it the wi-fi connection dropped out and it wasn't sent. I'll see you soon enough and fill you in then. I love the "Westsiiiiide" pic! Vlady will be representin' in no time. Really quick though - My dad picked me up from the airport late last night and we passed by the international portion and I said to him, "We'll be here on Friday to pick up the boys and Jayne and Rich!" Safe flying and we'll see you when you get here. Practicing my "happy cry".
XO- Auntie Ellen
P.S. yes, I agree with Cyndie, as I forgot to mention. Give the boys some dramamine. I remember the first time I took it (maybe a little older than Vlady) and boy was it neat, lol. It will help with the motion sickness and the flight for you guys! Give it to them an hour before you have to travel.
Love from the motion sickness Auntie Ellen!
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