Thursday, April 10, 2008

The night before Court...

Hi everyone! Now, we have alittle more time to write. The wireless internet still is not working so we are in the computer room again. Maybe tomorrow they will fix it for us. Like we wrote before we arrived safely. The airport (Incheon) in South Korea was really nice. Probably the nicest airport we've been in. It was very peaceful, quiet and clean. Also, the "fast food" sushi was good! We met Valerie at the airport who is also adopting and is using our agency, AAi. She is adopting a little boy - he is cute. Stas picked us up from the Vlad airport. We then checked into a suite at the Vlad Inn. It has two bedrooms and big living room and sizeable kitchen. We face the woods and are at the end of the hallway so we have a good set-up and are happy with it. When we went to see the boys yesterday it was nice. They were happy to see us. They checked for the toys that we always bring - and we played. We got back around 7:30 p.m. to the hotel last night, unpacked, went for a quick dinner at the hotel restaurant. And then passed out around 10:30. Time is just flying. The bed is comfortable and it is pretty quiet at night.

The caretakers told us that Alexei really missed us and was crying for us after we left in Jan. And Vladimir kept asking everyday when we were coming back. Vladimir still had the photo album and ran and got it along with the blanket we gave him in Jan.

Today was especially busy. We went to the orphanage around 9:30 a.m. The boys were excited and had alot of energy. Alexei needed alittle more attention today. He was resistant to us for alittle bit but then when we started picking him up and walking around with him and kissing and hugging him - he soon forgot to be resistant and loved the attention and soaked it in. Today, we went outside and played. It was a windy day but nice. I was holding Alexei and humming lullabys in his ear. The wind really picked up and he got my hair near my ears with his hands and placed my hair over my ears as to keep them warm...he is such a sweatheart. Vlady also at one point today, started to touch my face all over with his hands and then he touched my hair...some really nice moments today. Also, before we went outside the kids change into their outside clothes, sweater, pants, coat, scarf, hat, gloves, boots...so Rich dressed Alexei but couldn't find his hat, a caretaker came over and saw that his hat was in his sleeve and she went to get it but Alexei backed away from her and reached up for Rich to hold him and said Papa. Vladimir really enjoyed playing with Rich. Laughing and having fun. Alexei needed me more today...carrying him and mothering him. After this visit until noon, we then went to a pizza place with Anya, Stas, and Valerie. Anya prepared us for our court hearing tomorrow. Rich and I still need to go over our answers tonight. After the hearing we will go and get a couple cakes to have a going away celebration at the orphanage. We will then dress the boys and take some photos and then off as a family to our temporary home at the Vlad Inn! Oh, also after the lunch we went grocery shopping. It was a challenge to buy food with Russian labels. We tended to go for what looked like familiar packaging. Everything was a little pricey. I think some customers were shocked at all of the food we were buying...we filled up two carts (but their carts are somewhat smaller than ours at home). We then found out that we needed to go back to the orphanage to interact with the boys while a social worker observed so that she could testify how we interacted and if the boys will be happy. That went well. The boys were kind of mellow tonight (we finally got there at about 7 p.m.) and they were alittle shy with the new woman/social worker. But it went well. Vladimir (without being coached ;) said at the end of the meeting while in front of the social worker, "take me with you" "take me with you" - ! We said one more night here and then we will be a family. He told the social worker that he liked his mama and papa and that he wanted to go to America. So it's 11 p.m. and we better get some rest for tomorrow, it will be a great day!! April 11th!! We will write tomorrow night again probably at this time.
Happy Birthday Bill! Thanks for all of the comments! Jotsi, we didn't know you could write that well...we need to send you to school when we get back. You are so sweet and we miss you so much. Your Aunt Carolyn ;) is the best auntie in the world. Give her a big kiss from us!! Kelsi and McKenzie...the boys will love you soooo much and thank you for wanting to teach them stuff they should know. We can't wait to come to your house and play. We have pictures of you in their album and we will show them you both. Donna, glad you are following the blog!! Nice to hear from you. Aunt Doreenie - we have those two boxes of Nerds waiting for them in their room - we love you!, Pano, Sperry and girls - thanks for your love and prayers!!! Bridget, Dhruv and Amy! HI - nice to hear from you.
Love you all,
Rich, Jayne, Vlady, Alex, Jotsi

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi,
I thought I would leave a comment from the Windber family. We are all so excited for you. Hope all goes well at the hearing, I check several times a day for an update.
Love to all,

Muggs

photography said...

Hi Jayne, Rich, Alyosha and Volodya. Everything will go great today at court. You were all meant to be together...it's funny how that all works out. You found each other and now it's time to start your lives together. To think of those boys heading out of the orphanage with you guys today brings tears to my eyes...ok, so
everything brings tears to my eyes. Again, sobbing reading about how the boys interacted with you. I'm going to have to start practicing my happy "cry while smiling" for the airport.

All is well here. Betty, Jotsi and the house are fine. Betty and I sat and chatted for awhile yesterday before Jots and I went out for our exercise. I'll head over tomorrow after work to pick him up and bring him here for his slumber party with his cousins. Ellen got called back for that part . Hopefully she will get it. We'll probably know something tomorrow.

You are in our thoughts and prayers. I think of you all the time and probably hit refresh on this blog every half an hour when I'm home checking for new updates. Can't wait to hear what happened today.

Love you all!
Carolyn, Ellen, Syren, Fraulein, Ella and Meno

Anonymous said...

Hi Jayne and Rich,
Glad to hear that this day has finally arrived for you. I know you two will make very wonderful and loving parents. The boys will have so much to be thankful for. We can't wait to see some pictures when you send them. We enjoy reading your blog and like auntie
Carolyn we look at this often. Tell the boys they have many relatives looking forward to meeting them. They will be surprised at how many people that already care about them. Take care and be safe. Smile, you both finally made it.
Love,

Cindy, Chuck, Stephanie and Sarah :)

Anonymous said...

Jayne and Rich- So glad you arrived safely and all is well. Reading your message made me all teary-eyed....I am so happy for all of you!! Vlady and Alexi sound so sweet....cant wait to meet them. Sounds like you have already bonded beautifully!!!!You are all very lucky to have found each other and will make a wonderful family. Jayne, youve been listening to my "kid stories" for years now and I cant wait to start hearing yours!! Tomorrow is a big day for you-please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers and I am with you in spirit. It seems like so a long journey but well worth the wait. Please give my love to the boys and tell them there are alot of people that cant wait to meet them. Nick, Abby and Jeff send their love too!!! Finally- Welcome to parenthood!!!! It is without a doubt the toughest but most rewarding thing you will ever do...cherish every moment!
Love,
Bern

Anonymous said...

Wow! So exciting! Praying for all to go well with the court date and we are so excited that you will all be together soon!!!! Will look forward to checking the next blog!
Love to you all!
Katy and Paul

Anonymous said...

Hi Jayne and Rich-
What an amazing time in your lives. You are all in our thoughts and prayers!
Thank you for including us.
We love the updates.

Tom and Michaela

Anonymous said...

Hello Clodfelter Family (and we do mean "Family!"

We are so thrilled that everything is going so well for you guys and that the boys are bonding with you. Welcome to Club Parenthood, the greatest institution on Earth. When you arrive home, we will give you the full "Now what do I do with these kids who don't speak English" talk. Boy, can we relate! We feel so privileged and so blessed that you have become a part of our lives and that you have let us be able to share this journey with you. Believe us, the adoption process is not for the faint at heart, but you are more than up to the task. God picked you to be these boys parents, what a distinct and very awesome gift!

Please know that we are here for you and just a phone call away if you need us. Please give the boys our love even though they don't know us yet; they will! Taia can't wait to have them at her "bounce" birthday party. Your friendship has truly been a blessing to us. Please keep in touch. Love to all of you.

The Pappas Family

Anonymous said...

Jayne and Rich!

Ohhhhhhh, it all seems like a wonderful dream - you in a faraway land, getting the boys, and I can't wait to see you coming around the bend in the airport! I can't wait to love on my new nephews!

Good luck tomorrow though I KNOW everything is going to be great! We miss you guys and we'll be taking good care of your other boy this weekend!

XO - Auntie Ellen

Anonymous said...

Hi Jayne and Rich:

Sounds like everything is going very well. We can't wait to meet Vlady and Alexi in person. I love your last posting, so emotional. We are so happy for the both of you and for the boys. We can't wait until you are back here at home.

Love, Alie, Jason and Andrej

Anonymous said...

We miss you and hope you are enjoying your sons. (Dylan). How are your sons? I miss you very much. How is your wife?(Brennan). I miss you a lot, Mr. Clodfelter. At snack time we played tug-of-war, girls against the boys and we won 3 times - the boys lost. Liana came to visit school yesterday and she looks beautiful. (Jazmine). Mr Clodfelter, everyone came to school and Alex is here. (Johnnie). Mr Clodfelter - are you having fun is Russia? How are your 2 boys doing, and Mr. Clodfelter you are a father and you have sons, and you have to take care of your boys. (Ramon).

Mr. Clodfelter, we loved reading your letters about how everything is going. I tried to read it to the kids but got all teary and Traci had to take over. Can't wait for the next missive. Alex misses you and is still trying to stay sane dealing with my work with the group! Kids went a little crazy when I reversed spelling order for the test this morning, but Joel is here to teach us all about using clay.

Love from our gang.
Kay